a rolling stone gathers no moss....

....as the vagina of a motivated girl gathers no dust.
This morning started with a goal met. I've had a lovely couple of days off. On Monday I watched a bunch of the L word. Being a showtime program, the L Word contains a bunch of graphic nudity and steamy sex. As I was starting to really get into, my fiance came home from work. Drat, I thought. Tomorrow will be masturbation Tuesday. But come Tuesday morning, my fiance claimed defeat to his achy back and stayed home. So today, Wednesday, I left nothing to chance. As soon as I was fully awake, the vibrator was out. Then I ate a tangerine. A good morning. I finally finished "For Yourself" just half an hour ago. Did not care for that book. I did, however, learn that Paps are specifically to check for uterine cancer. I felt a little dumb for not knowing that already, but maybe it's like brushing your teeth. You know it's good for you and you're supposed to do it, but its hard to remember the whole laundry list of benefits it accomplishes. "Why should I brush my teeth? ... It's good for me." is usually sufficient motivation.
Later today, I'm going to finish a knitting project that I've literally been working on  for years.
A sense of a achievement can be almost addictive, especially during winter break, when there's no sense of achievement to be had from school.
There is a verb form of fellatio- to fellate. But can you do that with the female form?Is it possible to cunnilingate someone? I'm curious.
Anyway, the other night I asked my fiance to cunnilingate me, and he finally did. Yay hot foot sensations!
But, as I'm sure I've mentioned before, cunnilingus is a hard thing to come by in my bed. Despite bringing home dental dams and trying to seek out more comfortable positions, my requests for it (and I always have to specifically request it) are met with unhappy noises and hesitation, even when my fiance is already signed on for intercourse.
Here's the problem: how does one tread the line between advocating for one's needs (in this case, cunnilingus is the one thing that makes me feel consistently close to orgasm) and being inconsiderate and demanding (this latest encounter was the first instance of cunnilingus this month, and not for lack of trying on my part).